A Mother’s Love
We at Dogwood Forest of Buckhead Assisted Living in Atlanta celebrated our Mother’s Day joyously yesterday paying tribute to all of our great mom’s! And as I reflect on the mother’s role, I realize how difficult of a job it truly is. And yes, it is a job. Probably the most difficult of any job. However, this job simply compensates in love.
Not being a mother myself, I look at my mother and all the people in my life who are mothers, and I realize the sacrifices made. The passion and love involved. The time required. Many mothers have put their dreams aside for their families. At times, they have sacrificed their own aspirations. They love unconditionally despite any faults. They are the bond that mends the most broken of families. Mothers are so many things to their families: caregivers, counselors, protectors, investigators and everything in between. They must truly be a jack of all trades maneuvering through life like MacGyver. She exemplifies strength in times of adversity, even when secretly she feels weak. A mother will give life and limb for her family. This motherly protection transcends the human race to others species. The mother black bear would go up against any male bear that attempts to go near her cubs. The mother orangutan will even care for orphaned orangutan infants.
The bible first mentions the term mother in the book of Genesis 3:20 when Adam named his wife Eve, which means the mother of all living things. Eve is derived from the Hebrew language meaning “to breathe” or “have life.” Scholars say that Eve was given this name because she is the mother of all humanity. Eve’s role continues today.
I realize that until I become a mom, I would not truly understand a mothers love. But, I have seen a mother’s love through my mom and many of the other mom’s I have encountered over the years. A mother’s love is as good as it gets in this earthly rim. It is unconditional. It is probably the closest to 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 that any of us will ever experience. Our thought recognition of our mothers should exceed just one day in May. We should thank our mom’s for being mom’s every day of the year.
Happy Mother’s Day to all of our mom’s yesterday, today, and every day.
” Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.Love never fails…” (1 Corinthians 13:4-8)
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Mrs. McDonald Celebrates 100 years
Longtime Atlanta resident and new centenarian, Mary Elizabeth “M.E” McDonald, celebrated her 100th birthday in grand style April. Mrs. McDonald, who officially turned 100 on April 3, 2012, celebrated her big birthday with two parties. The first party was hosted by family and friends at Dogwood Forest Assisted Living in Atlanta Ga. while the second was hosted by Dogwood Forest at the location in Atlanta. The party featured musical entertainers sponsored by Homestead Hospice and lunch catered by Dogwood Forest Assisted Living in Atlanta, Ga.
Mrs. McDonald’s Life
McDonald, originally from Memphis, TN, spent most of her years in Atlanta after her family moved to the city when she was 18. Being a firm believer in education, she went on to graduate from Oglethorpe University with a degree in home economics. She would take the skills she garnered in college and apply them to her life as mother to her only daughter, and wife to Alfred Turner McDonald. Although, Mr. McDonald was a graduate of Georgia Tech and a engineer, who Mrs. McDonald proudly proclaims was heavily involved in the Georgia 400 project, it was Mrs. McDonald who managed the home finances. “My dad never paid a bill after he married mom,” said her daughter Catherine Eckford. “She did a really good job managing the entire household.”
The two met in 1935 on Auburn Avenue when Mr. McDonald was asked by his mother to check on a bake sale for his sister’s sorority which Mrs. McDonald was also a member. The two began a long romance and later married in 1950 after Mr. McDonald returned from World War II. With the flair of days long past, Mrs. McDonald would meet her husband with a scotch and soda cocktail upon his arrival home each evening says Eckford. “She would change her cloths and refresh her makeup and hair for dinner each night,” said Eckford. “She has always been a true Southern lady.” Mrs. McDonald also ironed her sheets and families undergarments and pajamas. “To this day, I still find it hard to sleep on wrinkled sheets, said Eckford. Mrs. McDonald also enjoyed playing the piano and gardening. Eckford, who now resides in the family home, still takes care of the hydrangeas her father planted for mother many years ago.
Along with managing family finances, Mrs. McDonald handled all event planning for frequent special and social events complete with décor and food everyone raved about. She made fabulous southern fare and was especially known for her chicken salad, pies and biscuits. According to Eckford, “no one ever missed mom’s parties with her friends constantly proclaiming “M.E.’s food will be delicious.” Mrs. McDonald frequently hosted luncheons and teas at her home for eight of her closest friends. She has outlived them all. But, Mrs. McDonald takes death in stride stating it is “it’s just a part of life.”
When asked why she thought she was fortunate to make it 100 years, Mrs. McDonald said simply, “The good Lord has been good to me. I trust God and take life easy.”
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Henry and Music Therapy for Seniors
There have been numerous studies in recent years concerning music therapy and Alzheimer’s disease. The affect of music therapy on people with cognitive disorders and diseases has been well documented. We at Dogwood Forest of Buckhead Assisted Living in Atlanta, Ga have used music with some of our residents through daily activities and have noticed a difference in engagement. Residents who are often reserved and less social will become alert and very engaged. The affect of music on seniors is quite remarkable. However, the story of Henry, a nursing home resident,was astonishing. Henry suffers from Alzheimer’s disease. He was isolated and relatively unresponsive. His speech- mostly incoherent. But, when given an i Pod with his favorite music, Henry is transformed. His brain seems activated and his spirit is engaged. Music therapy for Henry has brought back memories once lost in time. He remembers his favorite musician Cab Calloway and even sings his favorite tune. There have been numerous studies on the topic of music therapy, and Henry is proof that the power of music is indeed real.
Music Therapy: Both Art and Science
Music Therapy is uniquely different from other therapy’s in that is involves both art and science being both qualitative and quantitative in nature. Data is used to measure outcomes and is considered clinical. Music therapy can be prescribed by a physician, psychiatrist, or recommended by a psychologists, physical therapists, or occupational therapists.
Benefits of Music Therapy
- Improved awareness and concentration
- Improved memory and recollection
- Happier outlook on life
- Increases mobility and coordination
- Diminishes pain and improves recovery time
- Promotes relaxation and reduces stress
- Enhances interest levels and social interaction
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Our Interview with Resident Dr. Wade Hammer
Where did you grow up?
Lakeland Florida
What are some of your favorite memories from your childhood?
Growing up in the sunshine state! I enjoyed sports, school, and fun in the sun.
What are some of your favorite memories from your adulthood?
Raising my family. Spending time with my beautiful wife who I miss so very much. Serving my country in the military.
Did you have a profession? If so what industry were you in and what did you do?
I am an oral surgeon and used my skills in the private sector as well as in my military career.
Which accomplishments in your life do you feel most proud of?
I am most proud of being able to do good for others. I have tried to incorporate my faith in God into my daily life. I am proud of the wonderful family I have and all the blessings I continue to receive from them.
Is there anything you’ve learned in life you wish to share with someone who is just graduating college?
Stay focused and positive. Engage in community activities and stay involved in your church.
Is there anything you’ve learned in life you wish to share with someone who is just starting a family?
Take the time to be with your family. Make them your priority!
What brought you to Dogwood Forest’s senior living community here in Buckhead, GA? Or Why did you choose Dogwood Forest?
Dogwood Forest was a great fit for me. I am here for the excellent over all lifestyle and care offered.
How do you enjoy senior living here at Dogwood Forest of Buckhead, GA?
I am comfortable and enjoy the amenities here at Dogwood Forest.
What is your favorite part of living at Dogwood?
Good food, morning devotional time, art for all, bingo…guess all the social activities.
Who is your best friend at Dogwood?
I enjoy so many folks here! Leila and Jim Ewing are good friends as is the life enrichment director, Allison Adams.
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Our Interview with Resident Marilyn Balin
Where did you grow up?
New York
What are your favorite memories from childhood?
Time spent with my mother and grandmother. We all lived together, us three women!
What accomplishments in life are you most proud of?
My sons! The are wonderful men.
Did you have a profession?
My husband did not like the idea of me being out and about where I might catch the eye of other men. (She says with a smile) I love art! I have always been an artist at heart. I attend art school.
Do you have any advice for new college grads?
Don’t be afraid to work hard! Stay focused and in time you will reap the benefits of your efforts!
Any advice for those starting a family?
Women stay pretty for your man. Tell him he’s smart and handsome, even when sometimes he’s not! (Again with a smile)
What brings you to Dogwood Forest’s assisted living community in Buckhead, GA?
My family wanted me to be closer and in a nice, friendly, caring environment. So, here I am! (Smile)
What do you enjoy about assisted living here at Dogwood Forest’s Buckhead, GA Community?
All the fun, beautiful art work we do each week. Also the morning devotional time is really a nice start to my day. Bingo, always fun! And the fresh salads in the dining room are so wonderful!
Who are your best friends at Dogwood?
I enjoy talking, so I love spending time at the dining table chatting with Gerry Volkman and Sharon LaChance…they are my table mates!
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Our Interview with Resident Heidi Bradford
Where did you grow up?
New York State.
What are some of your favorite memories from your childhood?
I loved horseback riding very much. Summer camp was always fun too. I also loved skiing.
What are some of your favorite memories from your adulthood?
Raising my children would be to very top memory. I really enjoyed so much playing tennis on tennis teams.
Did you have a profession?
Medical Profession. I was a psychiatric nurse and I really enjoyed the depth of that kind of work.
Do you remember what was happening in your life during a significant event in US history such as WWII, Vietnam, Woodstock or any other historical events?
I remember when President Kennedy was shot. It was so moving to see his son, little John John salute the flag at his memorial service.
Which accomplishments in your life do you feel most proud?
Being a nurse, a mother, and tennis team captain and ski instructor.
Is there anything you’ve learned in life you wish to share with someone who is just graduating college?
Go into a field that you really really like otherwise it will just bring you down.
What brought you to Dogwood Forest’s senior living community here in Buckhead, GA? Or Why did you choose Dogwood Forest?
My daughter lives in the Atlanta area and thought it would be a good fit for me.
What is your favorite part of living at Dogwood?
I really enjoy the crafts like beading and various art projects very much.
Who is your best friend here at Dogwood’s senior living community in Buckhead, GA?
I would have to say Allison Adams our Life Enrichment Director and my dog Rusty. I also enjoy my friendship with Joanne Barbour our chef.
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Our Interview with Resident Joyce Haag
Where did you grow up?
St. Paul MN
What are your favorite memories from childhood?
Taking trips with my family. My dad drove. We had beautiful lakes in our area, and I enjoyed seeing all of them. One time my dad took me to a ranger’s station and we climbed the tower and looked out over the tree tops. That was fun!
What Was Your Profession?
I was a homemaker with 3 children for many years. I used the GI bill and went to college in my early 50’s. I have my degree in psychology. Also, I traveled with my husband who was in the service and during those times I counseled service men and women as well as worked for the American Red Cross.
Of what accomplishment are you most proud?
I am most proud of how I raised my children.
Do you have any advice for those just graduating college?
Continue your education. Find work and keep going until you are doing what you love.
Do you have advice for those just starting a family?
Make sure your child knows they are loved! Talk with your kids and tell them honestly how the world works.
How did you come to live in assisted living in Buckhead, GA? Or, why Dogwood Forest?
I am at Dogwood Forest because my sweet daughter wanted me to live closer to her. I was living in California, so being here in Atlanta was a better choice for our family.
What do you enjoy about living in Dogwood Forest’s assisted living community here in Buckhead, GA?
I most enjoy having 3 good meals that I can be served each day. It is nice to enjoy the dining room. Also, I enjoy reading very much, so the book club is one of my favorite activities.
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Seniors Singing the Winter Blues
If you or a loved one has the winter blues here are a few things you can do put the jingle back in your bells:
1. Recognize the signs. Many people including seniors do not realize they are depressed. Symptoms of depression include persistent sadness; loss of appetite; withdrawal from activities once enjoyed; withdrawal in social settings; lack of energy and interest; persistent emotion which includes crying; feeling of helplessness; feeling of loneliness; changes in sleep patterns; inability to concentrate on any one thing; staring into space; anxiety and panic.
2. Get out of the house. One way to battle the blues is to get out and about. It’s amazing what some fresh air and interaction with others can do for the spirit. Volunteering is an excellent way to get out and help someone in need. This could help with the feeling of helplessness and worthiness mentioned above.
3. Spend time with family and friends. Spending time with family and friends consistently could help ward off the feeling of loneliness that often comes from continual isolation. Encourage your senior loved one to show family and friends around their homes, like we do here at Dogwood Forest’s assisted living community in Buckhead, GA.
4. See a healthcare provider. As mentioned above many seniors may not recognize the signs of depression. Therefore, it is at times left up to friends and family to recognize the warning signs and encourage them to seek help. Depression is a medical condition a healthcare provider can help treat. Doctors can prescribe a number of medications to help with depression, and counselors and psychologist can also offer non-drug alternatives.
5. Be a good listener. If a senior has decided to open up about their feelings, listen and be completely considerate. It’s important that you don’t dismiss ones feelings. Sometimes they are looking to someone to listen, even if they are silent.
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Our Interview with Resident Jeanette Quillen
Where did you grow up?
I grew up in a beautiful spot known as Delaware.
What are some of your favorite memories from your childhood?
I truly love the “small town life.” I enjoyed growing up with close family and life-long friends. That’s one of the benefits of staying in one place for a long time.
What are some of your favorite memories from your adulthood?
There are so many! But all stem from my 42 years of work within the school system. I just loved working with the children! Arts, crafts, cooking! Developing programs that bring about excitement and a positive outcome…what a joy!
Did you have a profession?
I have worked in all aspects of hospitality, catering, food service and more. I did those jobs within the school system as well as in the senior living facilities in Delaware. I love cooking and baking! I enjoy hosting Baking Time with Allison our Life Enrichment Director here at Dogwood.
Can you remember a historical event that took place during your lifetime?
I can remember when President Kennedy was killed. We were actually sitting in our Government Class when they tuned in the TV to the life coverage of the event.
Accomplishments you are most proud of?
All the wonderful relationships I have built throughout my life and career with the many children and seniors!
Graduating from college advice?
No one starts at the top! Take life step by step and enjoy your journey!
What brought you to Dogwood’s Buckhead Assisted Living Facility?
I came due to an ongoing medical issue. My mom was a resident so it made a good fit for me to join her here.
How do you enjoy Dogwood?
I have had a great time! It has been rewarding due to the fact that I am proactive. I love to volunteer my time and talents to the seniors within my community.
What is your favorite part of being at Dogwood?
The positive interaction with the staff members and the residents in our beautiful Buckhead assisted living community!
Who is your best friend at Dogwood?
Our life enrichment director Allison and our first impressions person Marie have really reached out to me and made me feel at home here.
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